My house might not be the tidiest but i know where everything belongs, but when the husband comes back it looks like a bomb has hit it. I ask him to put things away and he says ‘later’ later when, when I have tripped over something, when our daughter starts playing things she shouldn’t be, when the world ends, is it tom much for a time line i mean its not too much to ask for. You would thing i asked for the world. I am not a neat freak i just like tidiness, my laptop has finger prints on because of the husband and not the child. He is a nightmare!